How could the horrific mass killing at Virginia Tech happen? After yesterday's senseless violence, it's easy to speculate. Tighter gun control and more vigilant campus security might have made a difference, but according to investigators, the ultimate cause behind yesterday's bloody massacre appears to have been the unchecked anger in one student's heart.
Anger itself is not sinful. It's a God-given emotion that energizes us to act. It can be used to do good or to do evil. Anger becomes dangerous when we choose to use it sinfully by either stuffing it within or venting it without.
When we internalize and stuff our anger inside we only hurt ourselves. Our bitterness slowly eats away at our souls like a cancer and twists our thinking so that we cannot view ourselves, our situation, or others clearly. Our problem isn't solved when we clam up in anger; it only makes things worse.
Yet venting our anger is no better. We may feel better by letting our pent-up rage out, but our angry outbursts leave a wake of damaged relationships and broken stuff. The problem isn't solved by blowing up; it only makes things worse.
Sinful anger makes us vulnerable to Satanic influence. That's a frightening thought, yet it's true. We're warned,
"In your anger do not sin": Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold...Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you. (Ephesians 4:26-27, 31-32, NIV)
The devil gains a foothold of influence in my life every time I refuse to resolve my conflicts and forgive. What role did this play on Monday in Blacksburg?
God intends that we use anger righteously by channeling it into solving problems. We need the energy of anger to pray (and maybe even fast). We need it to persevere in doing good. We need it to power clear communication.
Enacting tougher gun control laws would be relatively easy. But how do we control our anger and learn to use it righteously?
Start by recognizing that the time to deal with our anger is now. What's wrong is not murder, as awful as it is. The true problem is the anger at the root of such deeds of violence. Jesus makes it clear that the problem is not violence or murder but anger:
"You have heard that it was said to the people long ago, 'Do not murder, and anyone who murders will be subject to judgment.' But I tell you that anyone who is angry with his brother will be subject to judgment. Again, anyone who says to his brother, 'Raca,' is answerable to the Sanhedrin. But anyone who says, 'You fool!' will be in danger of the fire of hell. (Matthew 5:21-22, NIV)
Jesus is not saying that insulting someone is as wicked as murder. Rather, cursing someone and murdering are both expressions of the same sinful anger. Jesus urges us nip sinful anger in the bud before it blossoms into the destruction of self or others.
Maybe you and I would never murder someone. But isn't our unresolved, sinful anger still just as deadly to our relationships, and to our own souls? If you're angry, ask yourself why you're angry. Think about what you're thinking about. Then decide: What do you do with your anger? Will you let God's Spirit and God's people help work through it safely?
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